Tuesday, August 12, 2008

I was a bitch

Its no secret that when I very first started working a few years ago I was an absolute bitch, I've told everyone this.
My theory when I first started working was that anyone who paid for sex was a complete and total loser and I had absolutely no respect for them, or respect for men in general at the time.
I was a complete and total bitch for the first few months that I worked, it was pretty much "Lie on the bed, I fuck you, then you fuck off. No idle chit-chat, no compliments, don't touch my tits or I'll smack you in the face and you can try explain that black eye to your wife when you get home."
After a few months I began to realize that there was no need to be a complete bitch. It was actually a lot easier to be nice.

What bewilders me the most though, is that this entire time I was being a complete cunt to anyone who even looked at me, I never once got a complaint.
Now that I'm actually nice to people, I get complaints left, right and center. And I sometimes wonder to myself "Fuck, when I was a bitch, nobody ever complained, maybe thats what they secretly want, to be treated like shit."

Now the reason I occasionally wonder this is because I often work at parlors with lots of other girls, and I have actually noticed the girls who are complete and utter bitches to the guys get the most bookings. I know one particular girl who is a complete starfish [ I know this because I've done a few doubles with her ] not allowed to lay a hand on her, put your penis in and thats it, as soon as you cum you leave, and she gets about 9 or 10 bookings a night and never gets a complaint, and the thing that bewilders me the most is that I am very polite and helpful to these men, and a lot hotter than said girl and also a lot nicer, and I get about 2-3 bookings a night and still manage to get complaints.

I've decided next time I work at a parlor for a night I'll revert back to my old self and see if it produces any results. I'm thinking maybe my old self actually terrified the fuck out of the guys so much that they wouldn't complain out of fear for my wrath, or maybe they just actually liked it secretly, because some of these guys actually came back to see me, and I used to get fuck loads of bookings. Its rather puzzling really.

Feedback from some of you guys would be interesting.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Maybe you're right and they were too afraid to complain or maybe if they hadn't had much experience of escorts/WG's they pretty much thought that was the norm. I wouldn't have been too impressed personally but I would hardly expect the parlour management to do much about it , so for a lot of guys it would be them thinking is there any point in complaining because its not like I'll get a refund - so I'll just chalk that one up to experience.If they kept coming back for the same then I guess they would be the secret enjoyment group of punters . Just my 2 cents

Lydia x said...

Yeah, I thought all guys would just think all working girls are bitches anyways, thats why I didn't generally care how I acted towards them. I'm a hooker, I'm supposed to be a horrible bitch haha, at least thats what the movies showed me.

But it still doesn't explain why they'd book me in the first place. It's not like I was any nicer before they paid, in fact I was probably worse before they paid..

Anonymous said...

Some guys would rather book a good looking girl and go through with it even if shes a bitch than take the nice girl who may offer the better service (image thing i guess). Oh well , its a fucked up world LOL

Lydia x said...

Haha I just don't understand it at all really. Its always going to be something I find odd.